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written 2022

 

Biblical text used and quoted in Part Two of this commentary is the Christian Standard Bible (CSB) as seen in the authorization statement below.  Scripture quotations marked CSB have been taken from the Christian Standard Bible®, Copyright © 2017 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Christian Standard Bible® and CSB® are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers.

 

 

Table Of Contents

 

Preface

 

Authorship Of The Letters

 

About John

 

3 John 1 - 15

 

 

 

Preface

 

I think that you would agree with me that every page and every book in the Bible is important, but sometimes we ignore the shorter books of the Bible, like the apostle John's two last letters.  Even these shorter books of the Bible have important significance to us, and thus, the reason for this commentary.   

 

John was a very elderly man when he penned these letters, or, had someone else pen them for him.  I would suggest, especially since I am now an elderly man, that any elderly person who still had his mental capacities would have some important things to say in the last years of his life.  The apostle John, the one who Jesus seemed to bond with more than others, did have some things to say that are beneficial for us today. 

 

John, as it has been said, was the disciple whom Jesus loved.  Among other passages that makes this point, John 21:20 reads:

 

"So Peter turned around and saw the disciple Jesus loved [John] following them, the one who had leaned back against Jesus at the supper and asked, 'Lord, who is the one that's going to betray you?'"

 

I don't think Jesus was playing favourites, as we would call it today.  I simply think that Jesus' human personality and John's personality blended together to the degree that they became close, maybe even, best friends.  Jesus loved everyone.  That is why He sacrificed His life, but being completely human as well as being completely divine, He would have naturally had a few best friends, and, it appears to me that John was Jesus' best friend.  That only makes sense, don't you think? 

 

In the following pages I hope to instruct the reader on what John had to say to the recipients of these two letters.  I have already written an exhaustive commentary on John's first letter, which if you have not read, would be worth reading.  It is entitled An Elderly Man Speaks.  Here in January, 2022, I thought, since I had written a commentary on first John, I should finish the task by writing a commentary on second and third John.  My hope and prayer is that you, the reader, will be both instructed and inspired by what you read.

 

Like most all of the New Testament letters, they were written to address certain problems in the church.  John's second and third letter does just that, and that is why I have titled this commentary "Addressing Problems."   

 

Before you read further I tell you in advance that due to the fact I have been legally blind since birth, because I am not a professional editor, and because this book has not been edited by an outside source, you may find a few grammatical or spelling errors.  Hopefully you will not find many, but most importantly, I hope those you do fine will not detract from what you read.

 

 

Authorship Of The Letters

 

There is no real debate among Evangelical Christian Bible scholars over who penned 2 John and 3 John.  It was written by John.  There is, however, debate over which John it was who actually wrote first, second, and third John.  The majority opinion, to which I hold, is that the disciple and apostle of Jesus named John wrote 1 John, 2 John, 3 John, the gospel of John, and the book of Revelation.  The minority opinion is that the "elder John" who was an elder in the church in Ephesus and who was not the apostle John, wrote this letter.  Those holding to this second opinion distinguish between John the apostle, who knew Jesus personally, and John the elder of the church in Ephesus , who lived at the end of the first century.  They claim that there were two different Johns.  

 

I hold to the majority opinion for at least two reasons.  The first reason is that the content of John's three letters and the content of the gospel of John, which most scholars believe was written by the apostle John who personally knew Jesus, are extremely similar in their theology, wording, and content. 

 

The second reason for my opinion is that some early second-century Christian leaders claimed that the apostle John was the elder John who ended up living in the city of Ephesus near the end of the first century.  One early second-century Christian leader was a man named Polycarp (born 69 AD - died 155 AD).  He was a disciple of the apostle John.  Polycarp claimed that John the elder who lived in Ephesus was John the apostle who knew Jesus in person. 

 

Papias was another second-century Christian leader (born 70 AD - died 163 AD).  In his writings he associated the elder John with Peter, James, and other original disciples of Jesus, thus intimating that the elder John (presbyteros in Greek meaning older man) as being the apostle John.   

 

Concerning Papias, you should know that we do not have any of his original writings.  What we do have are quotes of Papias in the writings of Irenaeus (born around 120 AD - died around 202 AD).  Irenaeus was an important Christian apologist in the second century.  By the second half of the second century when Irenaeus wrote his books defending the Christian faith, the majority opinion was that John who was the apostle of Jesus was also the elder John who cared for the Christians in Ephesus .       

 

I have said that John was an elder in the church at Ephesus .  Many say that he was the lead elder in the church of Ephesus .  Traditionally speaking, Bible teachers have often called John the "bishop of Ephesus ."  I do not use the word "bishop" in respect to John because of what I call the "ecclesiastical baggage" concerning that word that stems from the dark age of the church in centuries past, which by the way, is still prevalent in many sectors of the church today. 

 

In today's ecclesiastical terminology, a bishop is a church leader with authority over a large geographical area that includes several congregations.  This is sometimes called "trans-local authority."  I question the idea that John held some kind of official trans-local ecclesiastical authority over a large geographical region.  However, John was certainly well respected across the Christian landscape in those days because he was the last of the original apostles.  For that reason Christians across the known world would have esteemed John above all other church leaders of the day.  However you view this isse is fine with me.  We all can agree that John was one very important Christian leader, if not the most important Christian leader, at the end of the first-century.          

 

 

About John

 

John was a Jew, who in his younger days, lived in the Roman province of Galilee .  The fact that he was both an ethnic Jew and a religious Jew is important.  His Jewish religious heritage is easily seen in what he wrote in his first letter.  Two such religious concepts are the cleansing by blood (1 John 1:7) and atoning sacrifice (1 John 2:2). 

 

1 John 1:7 reads:

 

"If we walk in the light as he himself is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin."

 

1 John 2:2 reads:

 

"He himself is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours, but also for those of the whole world."

 

When John penned his three letters he lived in the Roman city of Ephesus .  This fact is also important because many of John's readers would have been Gentiles, and thus, there are Gentile religious concepts that can be seen in John's letters.  One example of this is seen in John telling his readers that there is no fear in love, as seen in 1 John 4:18.  Greco-Roman, religious pagans feared their gods, but this was not to be the case with Christians.  John made it clear that the Christian, especially the Gentile Christian, had no need to be afraid of his God.        

 

1 John 4:18 reads:

 

"There is no fear in love; instead, perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment. So the one who fears is not complete in love."

 

John was one of the original disciples and apostles of Jesus.  He has been forever known as the disciple whom Jesus loved.  He is so known because that is how he described himself in John 13:23, 19:26, 20:2, 21:7, and 21:20.  Not that Jesus had favourites but it appears to me that Jesus' and John's personalities were such that they became close friends. 

 

John had a brother named James (Matthew 17:1, Mark 5:37).  Matthew 17:1 reads:

 

"After six days Jesus took Peter, James, and his brother John and led them up on a high mountain by themselves."

 

John had a father named Zebedee.  John's father and brothers had a fishing business ass seen in Luke 5:8 and 11 read:    

 

"When Simon Peter saw this, he fell at Jesus’s  knees and said, 'Go away from me, because I’m a sinful man, Lord!' For he and all those with him were amazed at the catch of fish they had taken, and so were James and John, Zebedee’s sons, who were Simon’s partners. 'Don’t be afraid,' Jesus told Simon. 'From now on you will be catching people.' Then they brought the boats to land, left everything, and followed him."

 

John outlived all of the other original apostles.  He could easily have been seventy to eighty five years old when he wrote his three letters, and most likely closer to eighty five years old than seventy years old.  This is important because an older person has much wisdom to pass along to the next generation.  Many things an elderly person once thought to be important are no longer important in old age.  Only the real important issues of life are important when you are standing before death's door.  This was especially the case in John's day when an older person was more respected than he or she is today.  So, because John was an elderly man, what he has written needs our undivided attention.           

 

3 John 1 - 15

 

The Text

 

1 - The elder: To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth. Dear friend, I pray that you are prospering in every way and are in good health, just as your whole life is going well. For I was very glad when fellow believers came and testified to your fidelity to the truth—how you are walking in truth. I have no greater joy than this: to hear that my children are walking in truth. Dear friend, you are acting faithfully in whatever you do for the brothers and sisters, especially when they are strangers. They have testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God, since they set out for the sake of the Name, accepting nothing from pagans. Therefore, we ought to support such people so that we can be coworkers with the truth.

I wrote something to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to have first place among them, does not receive our authority.  10 This is why, if I come, I will remind him of the works he is doing, slandering us with malicious words. And he is not satisfied with that! He not only refuses to welcome fellow believers, but he even stops those who want to do so and expels them from the church.

11 Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. The one who does good is of God; the one who does evil has not seen God. 12 Everyone speaks well of Demetrius—even the truth itself. And we also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true.

13 I have many things to write you, but I don’t want to write to you with pen and ink. 14 I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. 15 Peace to you. The friends send you greetings. Greet the friends by name.

 

My Commentary

 

 Verse 1

 

"The elder: To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth."

 

As we saw in 2 John, the word "elder" refers to John.  By the time John wrote this letter, he was both an elder, as in older man, and, an elder, as in a leader in the church.  Certain second century writings state that John was the lead elder in the city of Ephesus near the end of the first century. 

 

Some Bible teachers suggest that our English word "the," written before the word "elder," suggests that John was a lead elder in the church at Ephesus , not just one of a few elders in the church.    

 

Such a thing as lead elder, that is, a leader among leaders, was not the normal procedure in the first couple of generations of the church.  The move towards a lead elder began to change near the end of the first century, and that was due to heresy creeping into the church that caused major divisions.  The idea behind having one man in charge of the local church to whom all would submit was meant to keep the unity of the church intact.   This never really worked.  What did happen, though, is that the move towards a lead elder began the process where within three hundred or so years, that lead elder became God's spokesman to the church and also he became the church's representative to God.  This in fact, forms the foundation of Catholicism's system of church structure, which is unbiblical.  By this I mean that when a priest is seen as a middle-man between God and the Christian, that clearly destroys the doctrine of the priesthood of the believer that maintains all Christians have free and equal access to God through Jesus.  There is no middle man between Jesus and the Christian.  Anyone who claims to be that middle-man is out of the will of God.  He is abusing authority and does not understand the duties of a church leader.         

 

No one knows for sure who this man Gaius was.  There are a few men we read about in the New Testament with the name Gaius.  Gaius was a popular Greco-Roman name back in the first-century Roman Empire .  Some fourth century church leaders believed this Gaius was appointed by John to be the bishop, or lead elder, of Pergamum , but there is no earlier writings that would support this view.  We should just be careful trying to figure out what Gaius this letter was addressed to.  What we do know, or at least think we know, is that Gaius is not a Jew, and we believe we know that because of his non-Jewish name.

 

Note the words "dear friend" here in the Christians Standard Bible.  We should know that there is no corresponding word in the original Greek text for our English word "dear."  What is in the Greek text is a derivative of the Greek word "agape," which means love that is demonstrated through some kind of sacrifice. 

 

At first glance as you read the English text you might have thought a derivative of the Greek word "philos" might be seen in the Greek text instead of the Greek word "agape," but that is not the case.  Philos suggests reciprocal love, as in, I love you as you love me in return.  It is commonly understood as brotherly love, and thus, why you might think that was the Greek word translated as "dear friend" in the English text here in verse 1. 

 

I believe the CSB, and other translations as well, interpret the Greek as "dear friend" because of the Greek derivative of agape.  It appears, then, that John and Gaius had such a relationship with each other that they were willing to lay down their own will for the sake of the other, and thus, they would be seen as dear friends. 

 

Again, we see the phrase "love in the truth" here in verse 1 as we have seen before.  As I wrote in my commentary on 2 John, love and truth are often seen together, not only in John's writings, but Paul's writings as well.  Here is why I believe that the New Testament often associates love with truth and truth with love. 

 

All expressions of love must be based on and demonstrated within the boundaries of Biblical truth, and truth does have Biblical boundaries.  If you step beyond the Biblical boundaries of truth in the process of demonstrating love, you actually fail to love.  You do not express agape, sacrificial love as you think you are doing.   

 

If, for example, your sixteen year old son steels something from your neighbour, you do not hide his theft based on the fact that you love him.  You do not cover his sin as an act of love.  That would be attempting to love outside of the Biblical boundaries of truth.  You would, in fact, be participating in his sin.  True love, would confront your son with his sin with the hope that he would admit to the sin and take any needed action that demonstrates true repentance.  This is love that is demonstrated within the boundaries of Biblical truth.  It is often called "tough love" because it is often tough on the one demonstrating the love and tough on the one who is the recipient of such love. 

 

1 John 3:18 confirms what I have just written.  That verse reads: 

 

"Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth."

 

True Biblical agape love must be demonstrated within the boundaries of what the Bible defines as truth.  It also must be demonstrated in concrete actions.  If you step beyond the boundaries of Biblical truth, or, if you do not express love in action, you fail to express agape love.

 

Verse 2

 

"Dear friend, I pray that you are prospering in every way and are in good health, just as your whole life is going well."

 

It is interesting to note, at least in my thinking, that the CSB version of this verse seems to suggest something a bit different than the NIV's version.  The CSB says: I pray that you are prospering."  The NIV says: "I pray that you may prosper."  Whether right or wrong, I tend to see a slight difference between the two versions of this verse.  I tend to like the NIV's version a bit better and that is due to the verb tense of this phrase, which is, a Greek present, middle, infinitive verb.  I realize that sounds very complicated and confusing to you.  I will explain. 

 

The present part of this verb tense means that John hoped and prayed that Gaius would right now, and into the future, prosper.  The middle part of this verb suggests that the reality of such prospering is based on Gaius doing something and something being done to him by an outside source.  The outside source, in context, would be Jesus.  The infinitive part of this verb actually suggests that this verb is what is called a verbal noun.  You might say it is a combination of a noun and a verb.  You might be able to then say that John's prayer was that Gaius would be "a prosperous one."  This places the emphasis on Gaius being a prosperous man, not just on him being the recipient of prosperity or doing things that look prosperous.  It is thus, my opinion that John was praying that Gaius' very existence would be prosperous, and that would originate from both Gaius and Jesus.

 

John's prayer for Gaius is twofold.  First he would like to see Gaius being prosperous in every way possible.  That would suggests financially, socially, and most of all spiritually.  Beyond that, John prayed that Gaius would be in good health, even as his soul was in good health. 

 

Over the years I have seen this verse abused by those in the Hyper Faith Movement and the Prosperity Movement.  Those in those movements often say that we, as Christians, should expect to be in good health, especially if our souls are in good shape.  They, thus say, if you have genuine faith in Jesus that is expressed in words of faith, you should be living in perfect health, with all material prosperity.  I do not see this verse saying any such thing. 

 

John was not guaranteeing that Gaius, or anyone else, should expect to live in good health and be materially rich if he, or others, have sufficient faith.  That is only his prayer for Gaius.  It is only his hope.  It is not a certain fact, and I believe the Greek present, middle, infinitive verb tense suggests this to be true. 

 

I believe we should understand John's primary view of prosperity, not our western-worlds' cultural view of prosperity.  I don't believe he viewed prosperity only in financial terms.  First and foremost, he would have viewed prosperity in spiritual terms, and here is why. 

 

John would have heard what Jesus said about the issue of abundance, as in, the abundant life as seen in John 10:10.  John 10:10 is a verse that is often quoted by those in the Prosperity Movement and Hyper Faith Movement to support their thinking.  That verse reads:

 

"A thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come so that they may have life and have it in abundance."

 

Those in the Prosperity Movement and the Hyper Faith Movement tell us that Jesus was speaking of material prosperity or abundance when He guaranteed prosperity in the above verse.  I strongly disagree with this assessment.  Take Peter for example.  He heard these words spoken by Jesus.  He had a prosperous fishing business, which, Jesus asked him to forsake.  From then on, Peter was not financially prosperous.  The same was probably true for every other disciple who heard Jesus talk about prosperity in the context of the abundant life of John 10:10.  If Peter understood Jesus to tell him that he would be materially prosperous, really rich, then he would have been severely disappointed.  Peter never became materially wealthy.  He actually ended up being executed on a cross. 

 

Beyond Peter, few New Testament believers were wealthy.  Some were already wealthy when they became a Christian, but if they followed the Biblical mandate, they would have used their wealth in the service of the Lord.  Material wealth is never guaranteed in the New Testament.  For further details concerning Christians and money, you can read my book entitled, "Should I Tithe."         

 

Above all that I have said, verse 2, according to scholars, is just a common Greco-Roman way to introduce a letter in the first-century Roman Empire .  That being the case, we should be careful how we interpret the verse.  We should also be careful to not make more out of this verse than we should.  I believe those in the Prosperity Movement and those in the Hyper Faith Movement make way too much out of this verse.  They go far beyond what would be considered good hermeneutics, or, sound Biblical interpretation.     

 

Note the English word "soul" in verse 2.  The word "soul" is translated from the Greek word "psyche."  It is this Greek word where we derive our English word "psychology" and other related words. 

 

Verse 3

 

"For I was very glad when fellow believers came and testified to your fidelity to the truth ​— ​how you are walking in truth."

 

John was exceedingly joyful when he heard the news that Gaius was walking, or was living, in the truth of God.  Such joy always accompanies a true leader of God's people when the people are living what they claim to believe, and, what they have been taught by the leader.  This was Gaius.  He was indeed a great example of one living in obedience to the Word of the Lord. 

 

The Christian Standard Bible, from which I quote, uses the word "fidelity" in relation to Gaius' relation to the truth of God.  This simply means that Gaius was faithful to the truth.  He lived a life of godly faithfulness that was evident for all to see. We know this because other believers testified, or confirmed, that to be the case. 

 

If we claim to live a godly life according to God's truth, our claim should be attested by others.  We can make all of the claims we want, but unless others actually see the claims in action, there is a good chance that our claims are false claims.  

 

Verse 4

 

"I have no greater joy than this: to hear that my children are walking in truth."

 

As I have said earlier in my commentary on 2 John, we cannot say for sure if the words "my children" in this verse refer to John's biological children or spiritual children.  We have no written documentation whether John was ever married, let alone if he had any children.  That being said, I do believe, as most do, that John was speaking in terms of his spiritual children, as was often the case when it came to the relationship between a church leader and those to whom he cared for. I believe the context concerning the word "children" should cause us to believe John was thinking of spiritual children here.            

 

 I have already noted that Paul viewed both Titus and Timothy as his sons in the Lord.  I will repeat those verses again.  1 Timothy 1:2 reads:

 

"To Timothy, my true son in the faith.

Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord."

 

Titus 1:4 reads:

 

"To Titus, my true son in our common faith. Grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior."

 

One reason why elders in the church might view those to whom they have been given the responsibility to care for to be children is seen in Paul's instructions to Timothy concerning the qualities an elder must possess before he can be officially ordained, or acknowledged, as being an elder in the local expression of church.  1 Timothy 3:4 compares an elder to a father who has great loving care for his children.  That verse reads:

 

"He [the elder] must manage his own household competently and have his children under control with all dignity."

 

I tend to view the word "manage" in the above verse as being somewhat a cold-hearted word.  I believe the point Paul was making is that as a father has loving concern for his biological children, in like fashion, an elder has the same loving concern for those God has appointed him to lead.  For this reason, the early church understood elders to be care-givers, much like a father cares for his children. 

 

This is where Catholicism finds its thinking concerning calling priests fathers. The fact of the matter is that there is no Scriptural support for using the word father as a title for a church leader, as we do with the words elder, pastor, overseer, or shepherd.  These are legitimate New Testament titles for a church leader.  John and Paul personalized their relationships with certain younger men, and there is nothing inherently wrong with that.  They were not making a New Testament ecclesiastical doctrine concerning the word "father" as being a leadership title in the church.        

 

Verse 5

 

"Dear friend, you are acting faithfully in whatever you do for the brothers and sisters, especially when they are strangers."

          

Verse 5 might suggest that Gaius is an elder in a local expression of church, although as I often say, that is speculative because no where does the text confirm this.  Whatever the case, Gaius for one reason or another has some kind of ministry for caring for his fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.  This might well be a valid ministry for him, or, it just might be who he is as a person.  That is to say, by virtue of who he is, he just naturally cares for the needs of others, which really, should be a godly character trait in all Christians.  Remember what John wrote in his first letter. 1 John 3:16 reads:  

 

"This is how we have come to know love: He laid down his life for us. We should also lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters."

 

The specific brothers and sisters that John is talking about here will be named later.  They are obviously traveling missionaries, apostles, or those with some kind of Christian ministries.  We know this because John wrote in the next two verses about them being sent on their way.

 

Versed 6 and  7

 

"They have testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God, since they set out for the sake of the Name, accepting nothing from pagans."

 

Note the word "testified" in our English Bible.  As in other places in John's letter, the word "testified" is translated from the Greek word "martyreo."  This Greek word is where we derive our English word "martyr."  Those who testified to Gaius' love, were in fact, living witnesses to his sacrificial love.

 

We know these visitors, these strangers, were on some kind of Christian mission since John wrote that they set forth on their trip for the sake of the Name.  Of course, the Name is in reference to the name of Jesus. 

 

We should understand the word "Name" to mean more than Jesus' earthly name.  His name represents who He is.  I remind you that the angel Gabriel told Mary to call her son Jesus.   Luke 1:31 reads:

 

"Now listen: You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you will name him Jesus."

 

The name Jesus means God is Saviour, or, God saves.  Jesus' very name speaks to the Deity of Christ.  It speaks to Jesus being God in a human form while on earth, and, Jesus being God in some kind of super human form right now in heaven.  The name Jesus tells us that it is He, God in human form, who has saved those who have put their trust in Him. 

 

John's instructions tell us something about the normal routine of local churches when it came to travelling ministries.  If they were valid ministries, and not all who claimed to be valid traveling ministries were actually valid, the local church would provide that which was necessary for them to take the next part of their journey. 

 

There are some second-century writings that give some precise and specific instructions how a local church should respond to traveling ministries.  This was due to the fact that by the second century there were false traveling ministries infecting the church, and they, should not be supported.

 

Verse 8

 

"Therefore, we ought to support such people so that we can be coworkers with the truth."

 

As a result of what John has just written, John said that "we," not Gaius only, ought to support godly traveling ministries.  The pronoun "we" is important here.  John is making a universal, ecclesiastical statement here.  We, as in the church, must support valid traveling ministries in whatever way is possible. 

 

The reason John gave Gaius this instruction was due to the fact that both the godly traveling ministries and the local church are co-workers in the truth.  The word "co-workers" is important when it comes to church. 

 

If you read Paul's instructions to the Corinthians that are recorded in 1 Corinthians 12, you will note that church is the Body of Christ.  Since Jesus is no longer here on earth in physical form, and, since the individual believer as well as the corporate expression of church, are indwelt by the Spirit of Jesus, the church is Jesus' replacement body on earth. 

 

The common consensus about church in the West seems to be that it is an organization that has been set aside by God to do His will, and that is obviously true, but there is more to church than that.  More than an organization, you could say that church is an organism.  Church, due to the indwelling Spirit of God is actually Jesus' present-day earthly physical body.  It is for this reason that Paul called the church the Body of Christ in 1 Corinthians 12.  1 Corinthians 12:27 reads:

 

"Now you are the body of Christ, and individual members of it."

 

Paul did not say that the church is like a body, as in, the Body of Christ.  No, he said that "you are" the Body of Christ.  I take that to mean that the church is indeed the present-day, physical, living Body of Jesus on earth.  

 

1 Corinthians 12 tells us that as a human body has a multitude of different body parts, each having its own sphere of responsibility, so, each individual Christian in Christ's body, then, has his or her specific sphere of responsibility to carry out for the sake of the body as a whole.  In other words, as each part of a human body is a co-worker with other body parts, so it is with the Body of Christ, the church.  Each Christian has his part to play in the church, and he or she does so in relation to those to whom he or she has been called alongside in the Body of Christ.   

 

We must see those to whom Jesus has placed us alongside in His earthly body as co-workers in carrying out the will of God.  Far too often in the western-world church we simply see ourselves as isolated believers in an organized structure we call church.  If that is your view of church, you fail to understand the New Testament's understanding of church.  Each and every believer, none excluded, are co-workers in the truth of God that He has revealed to us.

 

The word "truth" is also important here.  We are not just co-workers of our own plans or our own version of truth.  If that is the case, we are not the church as defined in New Testament terms.  Our working together must be based on God's truth that He has reveal to us in Scripture.  We work together in accordance with His truth, not our truth, and especially not the truth of our surrounding secular culture, which seems to often be the case in today's western-world church.

 

Verse 9

 

"I wrote something to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to have first place among them, does not receive our authority."    

 

First of all, this man named Diotrephes is unknown to us.  There is much speculation over who this man was.   John does not tell us who he was so there is no use speculating.  You can't build an argument on speculation or silence, so there is no use trying.  That being said, we do know a couple of things about this man that we do know from what John did write.

 

The man named Diotrephes, who some think might have been an elder, liked what we would call the limelight.  He liked being the one, and maybe, the only one, in charge.  He loved to be the preeminent one in the church.  John had heard all about such a person directly from the mouth of Jesus.  Jesus said that the one who is first will end up being last and the one who is last will end up being first.  Look at what Jesus said, as recorded in Luke 13:30.

 

"Note this: Some who are last will be first, and some who are first will be last."

 

Look also what Jesus said about how Christians should view themselves in relation to political leaders. Luke 22:25 through 27 reads as follows.

 

"But he [Jesus] said to them, 'The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them, and those who have authority over them have themselves called Benefactors.  It is not to be like that among you. On the contrary, whoever is greatest among you should become like the youngest, and whoever leads, like the one serving. For who is greater, the one at the table or the one serving? Isn’t it the one at the table? But I am among you as the one who serves.'"

 

Clearly, Diotrephes was in the wrong.  He was not acting as a servant, and, he failed to submit to ecclesiastical authority. 

 

The New Testament does teach submission to church leaders.  Paul wrote about the apostolic authority he had received from God.  That being said, Paul did not use his authority in a dictatorial way, and neither should anyone else.  He expressed his God-given authority as a servant.  2 Corinthians 10:8 reads:

 

"For if I boast a little too much about our authority, which the Lord gave for building you up and not for tearing you down, I will not be put to shame."

 

2 Corinthians 13:10 reads:

 

"This is why I am writing these things while absent, so that when I am there I may not have to deal harshly with you, in keeping with the authority the Lord gave me for building up and not for tearing down."

 

It is clear that John had a good measure of authority in both the local church and the regional church.  Whether this is trans-local ecclesiastical authority as being church doctrine is debatable.  I question the concept of the local church being under the authority of a regional pastor.  You can come to your own conclusion about that.  I do believe, though, that since John was the last of the original apostles selected by Jesus, he was viewed by all as one having authority outside of the locality in which he lived. 

 

Verse 10

 

"This is why, if I come, I will remind him of the works he is doing, slandering us with malicious words. And he is not satisfied with that! He not only refuses to welcome fellow believers, but he even stops those who want to do so and expels them from the church."   

 

John stated the possibility of him coming to the local church at some point where Gaius lived.  There seems to have been a bit of hesitancy whether John would actually come to visit or not.  Remember, John was probably quite old when he penned this letter.  Whatever the case, John was giving Diotrephes ample warning of how things would be if he actually did make it to this church, and it is a pretty stern warning.  Depending on the situation, some times church leaders have to be stern and straight forward to those who are out of line in a local church.   

 

It appears to me that Diotrephes might have had some kind of leadership responsibilities in the local church that Gaius was a part of.  I say that because he was preventing the church from helping valid traveling ministries to pass through this church.  Beyond that, he was expelling Christians from the church who attempted to help these valid ministries.  It certainly appears that Diotrephes was not a servant of God.  He was a dictator, and as I have previously pointed out, church leaders are not to be dictators. 

 

Besides being a dictator, Diotrephes was a slanderer, to the degree that he even slandered the apostle John.  I find that very difficult to imagine.  One would have to be very evil to slander the last living original disciple that Jesus chose for Himself while he was on earth.  I can only imagine how divisive this situation would have been for this local church.  Many, or, I would think most believers would be on John's side in this situation.   

 

From all that we know of John being a loving, caring, kind-hearted man, how could anyone do him harm in his old age?  It is beyond my capability to imagine, but it did happen.  People can be that cruel, even in church.  It is sad to say, but many times over the centuries, church has been its own worst enemy.  We really don't need Satan to discredit us.  We can do that job quite easily ourselves. 

 

Verse 11

 

"Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. The one who does good is of God; the one who does evil has not seen God."

 

Note our English word "imitate" here in verse 11.  It is translated from the Greek word "memiomai."  We derive our English word "mimic" from this Greek word.  I think we would all agree that the Christian is to imitate that which is good, not that which is evil.  I guess it was something that John had to write to this church.  Since they had an evil leader, some of the believers might follow the evil ways of Diotrephes.  Those who were more bent of wanting to be seen, wanting to be first, might well have jumped on the Diotrephes bandwagon.  

 

In verse 11 John said that the one who does good was from God.  We need to understand this statement in its immediate context.  John was talking about Diotrephes, a very evil man.  It was he that was doing evil, which I believe John was alluding to in the last half of the verse when he wrote that the one who does evil has never seen God.  Diotrephes was that evil man who had not seen God.  I suggest, then, the John might have understood that Diotrephes was not a valid Christian.  This is the context of John saying that the one who does good, that is, among you, was of God.  John was not saying that anyone who does good was from God.  He was not suggesting that good works saves us.  He was simply writing to a congregation of believers who had some among them that are doing evil.  They had never seen God.  On the other hand, those among these believers that were doing good, they were valid Christians.  They had certainly seen God, that is, in metamorphic terms.  No one has ever seen God with his physical eyes.  It is what John wrote, as seen in 1 John 4:12.

 

"No one has ever seen God. If we love one another, God remains in us and his love is made complete in us."

  

Verse 12

 

"Everyone speaks well of Demetrius ​— ​even the truth itself. And we also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true."

 

Like Diotrephes, we are not sure who Demetrius was.  We see a Demetrius mentioned in Acts 19, but if this Demetrius is that Demetrius, we do not know.  The name Demetrius was relatively common in the first-century, Greco-Roman world.

 

John said that everyone speaks well of Demetrius.  The Greek verb tense here suggests to me that the church could have easily informed John via a letter about both Diotrephes and Demetrius, and now, John was answering this letter.     

 

John wrote that even the truth spoke well of Demetrius.  How can that be?  How can a non-living thing as truth speak well of anything, let alone a person's integrity.  Well, John was writing about the truth that comes from God.  All that comprises God's truth was seen in the life of Demetrius.  I would say that is a very powerful testimony.  Wouldn't it be great if there were more men and women like Demetrius in the church these days?  It would be nice to have known more about this man of God.  He could be an inspiration to us all.             

 

Verse 13 and 14

 

"I have many things to write you, but I don’t want to write to you with pen and ink. I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face."

 

After reading this very short letter about Diotrephes and Demetrius, John had much more to say to this local church, wherever it was located.  I am sure, you, like me, can imagine lots of things John wanted to say, but some things are just best said in person, or, face to face, as John put it. 

 

When and if John ever made it to these people is unknown, but we can be sure that he would have encouraged them, warned them, and rebuked some of them.  Diotrephes, who had kicked some out of the church, most likely would have been expelled from the church himself upon John's arrival.  Sometimes a person has to be removed from church if he or she is clearly teaching heresy, causing a major division, or abusing ecclesiastical authority.      

 

Verse 15

 

"Peace to you. The friends send you greetings. Greet the friends by name."

 

John closed this letter with the words "peace be to you."  This was a common expression within the Jewish community of John's day, and of course, John was a Jew.  It was a common phrase among most all eastern people back then, and really, is still a common phrase in the East today. When John, or anyone else, extended peace to someone, they were extending God's blessings to that person. 

 

Christians have both peace with God and peace in God.  We as Christians are no longer enemies of God.  We, through the cross of Christ, are no longer alienated from God.  We live in peace with Him and because of that peaceful relationship; we have inner peace that gets us through the struggles of life.

 

Note the word "friends" in verse 15.  The word "friends" is translated from a derivative of the Greek word "philos" which gives the suggestion of reciprocal love.  That is to say, a free flow exchange of love that flows from one person to another and back again.  John did not use the more common word for "love," that is agape, in this verse, as he had previously done when he called those to whom he was writing "dear friends."  Dear friends suggest a love demonstrated through sacrifice, whether the sacrificial love is reciprocated or not.  Friends, as John wrote here, suggests this free flow expression of reciprocal love between John and the other brothers and sisters in Christ. 

 

Both of the above expressions of loving friendship should be exhibited in the local expression of church, but in the church John was addressing, Diotrephes was messing that all up.  Sooner or later, each expression of a local church will have to deal with such divisiveness, but in the end, our prayer is for all of us to be both dear friends and friends.   

 

In summing up this letter, I note the following important issues.  Within any expression of the local church, both philos and agape style of love must be exhibited among those to whom are called alongside each other in the Body of Christ.  Both sacrificial love and reciprocal love are foundational to a successful local community of believers. 

 

Another issue to consider is local church authority.  Ecclesiastical authority is a valid New Testament teaching.  Those in authority must view themselves as servants and not dictators.  They are care-givers, acting on behalf of God.  Those they care for belong to Jesus, not to themselves. 

 

Submission to local leadership is important for the sake of unity.  That does not mean a local church leader cannot be challenged by those they lead.  They must be open as well to correction.  No one is infallible.

 

When those in the local church, clearly, dogmatically, and forcefully abuse authority or refuse to submit to authority, consideration should be given over the need to expel such a person. 

 

John, in this letter, was attempting to preserve and maintain the unity that those in the local church should have among themselves.  As Christians we understand the importance of unity, because disunity defeats the very purpose for our existence.  That being said, we do not maintain unity at all costs.  When our attempt at unity departs from clear Biblical teaching, that teaching trumps unity.  Division sometimes is necessary. 

 

John ended his letter with an exhortation and hope of peace for all that would read his letter.  May the same peace from our Lord and Saviour be both with you and in you.   

 

 

                              

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